SPREADING MY WINGS
FACTS: - I often have trouble taking compliments. - I do not enjoy the spotlight.Growing up learning to sew, I started with patterns. When using a pattern, you cut out the allotted pieces for your garment, read and follow the instructions, and sew until completion. However, as with many areas of my creativity, I always had a hard time sticking strictly to the rules. If the pattern called for one pleat, I might add a second, or additional length to a dress, or some flare to a sleeve. These details always felt like extra character to me, making the garment unique, until I began fashioning garments all my own.Yesterday, I had the privilege of attending The Forward Gala with keynote speaker, Angela Davis. A black-tie affair, I perused my closet for an appropriate outfit. Of course I had nothing to wear (lol), and quickly decided I would make an outfit for the occasion. So, for the next 2.5 hours in between graduation celebrations, I drafted and completed this silk, golden honey-brown gown with draped sleeves and a cowl back. 
Boasting a high-low gem with a mini front slit for walking ease, I wanted the garment to be dramatic, yet simple. Paired with my favorite black suede heels and clutch, my fiancé and I set off to the gala.Honestly, I wasn't completely happy with the dress at first. As a creative, you find flaws in your work, more than any one else. I always feel like more can be accomplished, and maybe if I make small changes here or there, my piece might even be better than I had imagined. 
On the contrary, the dress was well received. Although I will continue to tailor it further, I am learning to appreciate my work. With the help and encouragement of my fiancé and my supportive friends, I am also learning that it is not normal to craft a wearable garment in just a few hours. I am learning those are gifts, and superpowers that not everyone possesses. Today I realized, in acknowledging that, I allow myself the space to spread my wings and develop even further in fashion and design. Looking at these capabilities as everyday happenings is/was not only doing an injustice to myself, but possibly even depriving those who may benefit from these gifts, because I view them as nothing out of the ordinary. It also helps release accountability, because in realizing that your gifts are things in high demand puts a certain responsibility towards satisfying those demands, if indeed they are ways you use to contribute to the world around you.
What is your "superpower"? Is it creative arts? Leadership? Public speaking? Whatever it is, don't be afraid to foster it, and confidently acknowledge that it is a gift. Accept compliments with gratitude, and use them to fuel your desire to be even better. It is not an easy task, but is a necessary part of developing and growing, something I'm striving to be better at every day. So, this week, I'm going to focus on flexing my superpowers! This week, I'm going to spread my wings.Have a wonderful weekend....and Happy Memorial Day.-AB